Make it Happen!!

Even if she doesn't say there's something missing, she may be thinking it. That's the thing about sex; even when it's great, there's still room for improvement--if not for you, then, just possibly, for her. The problem might be falling in different categories but the most common one will be that she won't tell you what she wants or maybe she did tell you but you were a little too involved at the time to pay attention.

We want to share with you great secrets about how to make the root of your room so steamy that no one will ever resist you.

1. Slow means slow: Whenever a woman says she wants things to go slower, take what you think is slower and multiply it by 10. The time you spend at each stage should be longer--women want to be teased. Women often complain that guys work too quickly through the stages kissing, hands on boobs, hands on crotch.

2. Change your style: Don't assume that because something worked last time you should stick with it. Variety is the spice of sex. Don't be afraid to try things and ask her how it feels: more or less, faster or slower, softer or harder.

3. Remember that adult films are for entertainment purposes only: the seductive period leading up to the nakedness is important, and you seldom get that in porn. And forget that tongue-flicking thing they do.... Generally, women want anything you do with your tongue to be long and slow.

4. Give yourself a rest: We want things to go on a while, but chafing isn't sexy. And just because you start something doesn't mean you can't stop and go back to it. Don't be concerned you'll lose your erection, because you can get it back.

6. Sometimes she doesn't want much foreplay: If she's eagerly attending to your happy parts more than the rest of your body or pulling you straight into a sexual position, it's pretty clear.

7. Don't assume she'll request what she wants: Many women are shy about asking for oral sex, but really do want it. If she doesn't ask, give it a try anyway. Kiss your way from her neck all the way down her chest, stomach and thighs, then go for it. If she likes it, she'll be happy to let you keep going.

8. Do it in the dark: Rather than feeling as if you're missing something by not being able to see her, enjoy the pleasures that her sense of freedom can bring both of you. And if you want her to feel totally uninhibited, blindfold yourself and let her go wild

9. Have fun with mirrors: With mirrors, you can change positions and angles if what you see is not turning you on--it's easy to move around to find an attractive view.

10. Put her in the driver's seat: In general, female-dominant positions will make you last longer and her climax faster. They also make it easier for you to use your hands, touching all the places that aren't as accessible when you're on top. If she's a 'breast woman,' stimulating them up to and including the grand finale can create electricity that will knock your socks off.

12. Make the most of what you've got: Want your girth to feel twice as huge and her to feel twice as tight? Try positions where she has her legs straight up in the air. Want to feel twice as long to her? Try positions where she pulls her knees back toward her chest. On the other hand, if it's so big that she's uncomfortable, take extra time with foreplay. The more excited she is, the easier it is to fit together just right.

13. Get her motor running in different ways: Foreplay can be many things. It can be anticipation--knowing that you're going to have sex at a certain time later on can fuel the fire.

14. Tickle her ears: there's no greater aphrodisiac than being listened to. It translates into a feeling of being connected, and connectedness is probably the greatest aspect of a woman's ability to engage in sex.

15. Play with her head: A great way for men to enter foreplay is to tease out her fantasy side. That might include telling stories or reading a sexy book together. When you're in the zone of sexual energy, everything becomes a part of foreplay.

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